Conflict Between Two of My Best Friends

B and S are two of my best friends in Singapore. They are my secondary school junior. Maybe because we are from same city of china, we've hit it off ever since our first chatting to each other. S is a very pretty girl with a mild look, but a impulsive character. B used to be a bit tomboy look, and with a strong character as well. (She looks very girly now) There is one fact I must admit, S and B got along with each other better, they were so close that even S's mum once suspected that they were in a girl and girl relationship.

After graduating from secondary school, each of us was busy with own things. Although we didn't meet so often, we never drifted apart. Things changed in last year, my second semester in university.

That time, three of us shared same unit. At first, we were so happy that we could chit chat till very late and we could help each other dress up again. But things didn't turn out to be so nice. One night, S told me she don't want to be friend with B anymore, she think that B changed a lot and now B only knows how to use people. I was very stunned after I heard this, as to me they were always soul mate. I continued to ask S why, she said B was avoiding her and purposely never invite her to her birthday party and the only reason B called her was asked her to settle university administration problem (that time B was in China). And even worse, B deleted S from her Facebook contact.

I don't know what happened between them. The only thing I know is after that I cannot mention S in front of B, and cannot mention B in front of S. And I am always obeying this rule; because I think something bad was already happened and I don't want to hurt them twice. It was like I almost lost two very good friends. I want to solve the conflict between two of my best friends and until now I still cannot figure out a good way. Can anyone help me?

Application Letter for IT Security Advisor(Assuming I am a graduate student)

Chen Yan
ABC Street 62
Block 98, #10-20
Singapore 124589
(+65) 90010002

12th February, 2010

HR Manager
54 EFG Street
Singapore 678093

Dear Sir/Madam,

APPLICATION FOR THE POST OF ITSECURITY ADVISOR

I have a great interest on your advertisement for position of IT security advisor posted on jobstreet. As I know, F&G is a company with long history, wide scope of business and excellent quality of product; I would very much want to be part of your team to contribute to your future success.

I graduated from National University of Singapore (NUS) with a honor degree in computer engineering, specialized in networking. During my course of study in NUS, I completed numbers of modules related to IT security. Other than normal curricular, I have also attended many workshops to build up my computer skills, for instance, UNIX workshop, VMware workshop. Therefore, I have equipped sufficient knowledge in IT security related field.

The experience of being a leader in co-curricular activities in junior college and experience of organizing event in university also equipped me with strong interpersonal skills and communication skills. During my study in NUS, I had to handle many project at same times, so I am able to work under tight deadlines. I am a well-organized and enthusiasm person who enjoys challenge myself and working in a fast-paced environment. My knowledge together with my passion in IT security field makes the right person for the position you are looking to fill.

I have attached my personal resume, which outlines details of my education, experience and person information.

I will be available to come in for an interview at any time convenient to you. Please feel free to contact me by phone at 90010002 or by email at cy514@hotmail.com. I am looking forward to hearing from you soon.


Yours Faithfully,

Chen Yan

Enclosed: Resume